Long Duck Dong

First I will list the factors of determining whether this specific male is romantic relationship material:

• If he is loud and obnoxious at a party
• shorter than me
• overly pronounced nose
• going to school
• employed
• drives a vehicle
• makes me laugh
• has to feel easy, comfortable to talk to
  
• understand my humor
• has to be proactive, i like someone to challenge me.

And these are only the top ten. Don't judge me because I have a thing about noses! I like a nice nose. I was thinking, if i was a guy judging me the way I judge and look at beauty, i would be hesitant to date myself!

Duck's theory makes perfect sense to me. I know exactly what he is referring to. I constantly admire or wrongly hate someone because of my preinteraction. I do a lot of my judging from a distance which i began to read is probably not the best way to judge someone. At a party for example it is easy to observe the attractive guy across the room first before going over and talkin to him. But i miss out on the congnitive cues and even the interaction cues because I am only being a spectator, or maybe a creeper even!

This gives me a lot to think about and the way I perceive my romantic relationships.